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But I've learned that those romantic conventions don't work when you are trying to date a queer person.
The dynamic of two men being together IS DIFFERENT.
I was becoming attractive, to the point where other guys were staring and had lust in their eyes.
To say I wish I was a big boy again would not be too far from the truth.
Though I respect that, I still want to find someone in a similar place of coming out.
It can feel like babysitting otherwise." —Eddie, 28 "The biggest struggle that I have while I'm dating is when a guy thinks that I'm ~too young~ to date.
You can be having a great conversation with a guy online, then, at the slightest suspicion that you are a total queen, you are ghosted. We just need to learn that some guys really are into Britney Spears while others really do love monster trucks, but that doesn't define what they can bring to dating or a relationship." —Jeremy, 22 "The biggest struggle of dating is the internal battle one undergoes when deciding if he wants an open, polyamorous, or monogamous relationship.
Their pictures were years old, and we didn't have the same interests/conversations we had online.
There aren't any surprises." —Peter, 25 "Along the lines of masc guys saying they don't want fem guys to message them, guys clearly state they don't want 'ethnic guys.' Race in dating, even in 2015, seems like an issue.
Can't you just date me for me and not be turned on/off by my tan skin?
It's become a thing to hide behind a virtual wall and become something you're not.
That's why I prefer meeting someone through mutual friends or activities.
I understand that people are in very different places in their coming-out process when they are 20.